Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Friends, Families, and Futures

Hello all! My apologies for not writing, but my junior year in high school has taken me by storm! So much has happened in my life--with my friends, my family, my future, and my relationship with my Heavenly Father. Let me try to share a few things that I have experienced and find a meaning in them so that everyone can learn something.




With my friends I have learned that nobody is perfect. It seems so simple, but it is a lesson we will continue to re-teach ourselves for the rest of our lives. If we have a friend that is the opposite of us, we become irritated that they don't understand how we feel. But if we have a friend that is the exact same as us, we are frustrated because we find their flaws--which reflect our own. I know, I know, you tell yourself. Nobody is perfect so we just have to accept things and move on. But sometimes it isn't that easy. Friends are people that we turn to when nobody else understands. Best friends are the ones that we put all of our trust in when the world turns its back on us. Unfortunately, that can't be. Our faith must be put in Jesus Christ. The most wonderful person on Earth will still let you down. We are put on the Earth as sinners and we will leave as sinners. There is no escape of that. And friends are wonderful people to have in your life. Friends are a necessity that the Lord has given us to enrich our time on the Earth. But when it comes down to it, our Heavenly Father is the only One who will never fail us.

Let me expand upon my Heavenly Father. A father is someone who is the head of the household. He protects his children in every way possible, and will do everything in his power to make them happy. Now take that and imagine that father figure as a father to the entire universe. The name Heavenly Father was not given to God by accident. He is our Father and He protects us and wants us to be happy. It is just that simple. While everything on Earth may be a mass of confusion sometimes, the comfort of knowing that our God will not change will never go away. He is unchanging, and that stability is what some people search there whole lives for and never find. But He is waiting. He will never leave us.

One thing that my Heavenly Father has given me is my family. I have a wonderful dad, mom, sister, and brother. My older sister is my role model. She is an amazing person and I admire her in everything that she does. My little brother reminds me of the small pleasures in life. He enjoys everything that he does and does it all to the fullest, never letting a good moment pass him by. My parents take care of me and provide a safe place for me to live. They raise all of us in a Godly home and teach us right from wrong. They also taught me about Jesus and what He did for me. And that is where my future comes into the picture.




Going through my junior year in high school, watching my sister go to college, traveling on mission trips--many different things have had an impact on shaping me into the person I am today. I would be crazy not to be thinking about my future. Throughout the past few years, God has made Himself real to me in ways that cannot be expressed on a simple blog. But the conclusion that He has brought me to is that I will devote my entire future to Him. Not only in my everyday actions, but through the ministry. I am hoping to attend Samford University and graduate with a major in religion and a minor in psychology. I don't know if I will pursue a steady job at a church or a crazy job on the everchanging mission field. But I do know for a solid fact that the Lord wants me to dedicate my life in His service.

Well I have gone on and on about what has happened in my life. But I want to end on the note of prayer. Everyone is always dealing with something. Whether they show it on the outside or bottle it up on the inside, something significant is going on in their life. So next time you are brushing by someone in the hallway or thinking about honking at the slow driver next to you, I challenge you to say a short prayer for that person. You have no idea what may be going on in their life.


Merry Christmas! And don't ever forget the true meaning of it. May the Lord bless you all throughout the holiday season!

Sunday, January 20, 2008

COLD hands. WARM hearts.


well i havent blogged in a while but i figured i dont exactly have anything better to do right now. i guess you could say that i am in sort of a mid-winter slump. i guess it is a mixture of a bunch of things. the cold weather keeps us inside, where there is only so much to do..and then i am in desperate need of a good job, but i don't exactly know where to apply. not to mention that i have this little minor thing called "high school" that i have to deal with. freshman year is just getting your feet wet, but this is officially the real deal. i am competing for scholarships to try and get in the best school possible for me. and at the same time i am trying to mold what little time i have left into a social life. i am just very stressed out. i am also really trying to work on my money managing. i am sure that i speak for every teenager when i say that money doesnt grow on trees. although it sure would make life a whole lot easier. but that just wouldnt be much fun, would it?

i have to be honest in saying that everything always feels better when you have earned it. and some of the best memories i have with my friends are not elaborate and expensive times, but really just being with the people that you love and enjoying their company. for instance, the other night my friend and i were going to see a movie, but everything was sold out. so to make a long story short..we ended up just driving around town for a while and then going home and playing monopoly with her mom for a few hours. but we had an absolute blast! you see, sometimes we forget that what truly matters in life just isn't how much money you have and what you can buy with it. life is about being who God created you to be and living your life to the fullest. i keep coming back to the point that we need to take the time to see the small things in life. because i promise that in the years to come you will wish that you had enjoyed every moment of your life.

i also recommend the movie "the bucket list" to anyone who is interested in looking in to the lives of two men who decide to, literally, "live like they were dying." check it out. it is worth the money.